Compersion has rarely been an easy feeling to explain. By that I mean when I explain to people what compersion feels like, I’ve never had anyone say, “Oh yeah, I know exactly what you mean.”
Waist Beads
I don’t know very much about the traditions of waist beads. I’m just so proud to be of African heritage because I get to wear them without having to know anything about them and people won’t give me shit about …
Manifesting: Mirrors, Magic, and Masturbation
This is actually the title of one of the workshops (Mirrors, Magic, and Masturbation) at Sex Down South Conference. I didn’t attend that workshop but I liked the title so I decided to use for this post.
When I …
I don’t need a toy; I need the real thing 🍆
You will find the word sex toy a lot in this post since it is indeed about sex toys. In the finale of the summer 100, you will find that I have linked the words “sex toy(s)” …
Signs of Men I’ve Loved
Spending this last week with my love has me thinking about all the men I love and connecting the dots of what they all might have in common. I absolutely love the way we do relationships in a variety of …
Sex with Strangers
…In the heat of summer on an early Saturday evening, a beautiful woman of few friends and mild social anxiety can be found scrolling the personal ads of her local online classifieds to see what wonders there are to discover:
All Opposed to Cunnilingus Say I
Vaginas are not that complicated
Pussy is not that anatomically complicated. People are out here making it seem like it’s rocket science; it’s not. The outside is called the vulva and the inside is the vagina. See easy. All the …
Sex Magick: An Introduction
This post is All About Sex Magic and I’m not talking Tantra here. At least I don’t believe so. However, I cannot be 100% certain, only because I’ve never actually read any Tantra myself. Although, I plan to. I’m curious …
Fuck me like you love me so I know it’s real.
**VENT POST**
I wrote this post awhile ago. Perhaps a year ago or more. It was about a lackluster sexual experience that seemed promising at first. I didn’t want to post it then because I was still in …
3 Reasons to Masturbate Beyond Pleasure
How can a person be an advocate for women’s orgasms and not be an advocate for masturbation? Short answer. You can’t.
Lately, I’ve been talking a lot about masturbation and that’s no coincidence.
First, the theme for round one’s summer …
Does “too much” Masturbation Make Me Less Sensitive?
The theme for the last couple of months has been masturbation. It all started in April with the 30-day orgasm fun followed by May’s Masturbation Month. I got to try out a few awesome toys. I am so excited 🤩 …
Themes and Other Things
We have decided to create themes for each round. And since there are six rounds there will likewise be six themes. Special thanks to Carly of Dildo or Dildon’t for coming up with (most of) these themes. Isabelle and I …
Lady in Red
I love the color red. It is one of my absolute favorite colors to wear. Here, I’m wearing leftover, smeared lip color of my favorite shade of red.
Smeared makeup is art. I sleep in it on purpose just to …
