Last Thursday, I had the honor of performing for some beautiful Houstonian melanated people on the Nawfside. I don’t think I ever tell yall how much I love my people…lies…but not nearly enough ✊🏿. They’re the same ones I hung …
Why I need my children to see me in love
I am polyamourous. I fall in love often and mostly this love exists under certain conditions. Falling in love unconditionally is me in my rarest form.
The last time I was unconditionally in love with someone was before my children …
To Love Love is Unheard of
Compersion has rarely been an easy feeling to explain. By that I mean when I explain to people what compersion feels like, I’ve never had anyone say, “Oh yeah, I know exactly what you mean.”
Story time
Waist Beads
I don’t know very much about the traditions of waist beads. I’m just so proud to be of African heritage because I get to wear them without having to know anything about them and people won’t give me shit about …
Manifesting: Mirrors, Magic, and Masturbation
This is actually the title of one of the workshops (Mirrors, Magic, and Masturbation) at Sex Down South Conference. I didn’t attend that workshop but I liked the title so I decided to use for this post.
When I …
I don’t need a toy; I need the real thing 🍆
You will find the word sex toy a lot in this post since it is indeed about sex toys. In the finale of the summer 100, you will find that I have linked the words “sex toy(s)” …
Signs of Men I’ve Loved
Spending this last week with my love has me thinking about all the men I love and connecting the dots of what they all might have in common. I absolutely love the way we do relationships in a variety of …
Sex with Strangers
…In the heat of summer on an early Saturday evening, a beautiful woman of few friends and mild social anxiety can be found scrolling the personal ads of her local online classifieds to see what wonders there are to discover:
All Opposed to Cunnilingus Say I
Vaginas are not that complicated
Pussy is not that anatomically complicated. People are out here making it seem like it’s rocket science; it’s not. The outside is called the vulva and the inside is the vagina. See easy. All the …
Sex Magick: An Introduction
This post is All About Sex Magic and I’m not talking Tantra here. At least I don’t believe so. However, I cannot be 100% certain, only because I’ve never actually read any Tantra myself. Although, I plan to. I’m curious …
Fuck me like you love me so I know it’s real.
**VENT POST**
I wrote this post awhile ago. Perhaps a year ago or more. It was about a lackluster sexual experience that seemed promising at first. I didn’t want to post it then because I was still in …
3 Reasons to Masturbate Beyond Pleasure
How can a person be an advocate for women’s orgasms and not be an advocate for masturbation? Short answer. You can’t.
Lately, I’ve been talking a lot about masturbation and that’s no coincidence.
First, the theme for round one’s summer …
Does “too much” Masturbation Make Me Less Sensitive?
The theme for the last couple of months has been masturbation. It all started in April with the 30-day orgasm fun followed by May’s Masturbation Month. I got to try out a few awesome toys. I am so excited 🤩 …
