“Close your legs,” she scolded. She said it so forcefully, it frightened me. I curled into the fetal position, snatching my dress down over my summer tanned legs. She said it so forcefully, I just knew I had committed a …
Author Archives: Victoria
Ever been shamed for being in love?
We’ve all gone through traumas in our lives that affect us in unimaginable ways; in ways that simply become known as our own personal version of normal. And we might never know that these things are affecting us at all …
PSA Polyamory
Shout to ppl who think I shouldn’t be taken seriously just because I’m polyamorous. Just cause I make porn and date seven guys at once. That last sentence may or may not be true… It’s just one of the reasons …
Sluts have standards, too
This is something I’ve wanted to talk about for some time now. First off, I’m such a fan of the slut movement, however I must confess I am not a fan of the word itself.
It’s not a word that …
Navigating Sex as a Single Mother
Me: So I met a guy
Relative: Oh, how nice. Tell me about him.
[Proceeds to spill with wonder and excitement]
Relative: How wonderful? Does he know about the kids?
Me: Yes, he knows.
Relative: Has he met the kids?…
Spread Luv, Not STDs; Get Tested
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Have you ever had …
To Love Blackness
At 3:03 am and I’m wide AWAKE listening to My Uzi from The God Box album.
I have many perspectives of my blackness and even still my perspective is limited simply because I do not have the experience of being …
Treat Yo’self: A Valentine’s Day List
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Single or not here …
Celebrate Orgasms: Blog Anniversary & Valentine’s Giveaway
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I love the month of February because blog anniversary, because love, and …
Can I Have Sex with My Period Cup In?
My greatest obstacle when navigating my cycle as a girl and even now as an adult has been management.
It seemed as if no matter what I did I somehow managed to bleed all over myself in the process.
Just …
Twerk is International
When I was in second grade, I won my first twerk contest. Yes, you read that correctly. I doubt I had anything to twerk, but I definitely had the technique down packed.
My friends and I loved to twerk. They …
Review: Zumio and Satisfyer for Blended Orgasms 🌊
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Yay me! This is officially my first toy review ever. Why oh why did it take so long? I’ll tell you why.…
New Year, New Opportunities
Welcome to 2019 people. I do realize we are an entire 11 days into this new year. I call myself resting right now and taking things slowly. My holiday season seguing into twenty nineteen has been a lot to process. …
